Let’s Party, Brides-to–be!

Celebrating the last a few days to be single ladies before the bride stepping into marriage is a great idea. If you ate a bride-to-be, or you have friend who is going to get married, planning a single party to memorize the single days and prepare to welcome the new life. Here are some tips for you.

Tip1. Place

Renting a nice venue or holding the party at home are both ok. You can depend on your financial status to choose where to hold the party. If you are going to rock the party and play loud music, it is better not to have the party at your house. This is because the noise will bother other people’s life.

Tip2. Dressing

There are no strict dressing requirements for the single party. You can wear what to want. Dresses can range from regular shirts and jeans to pajamas and evening dresses. Just make yourself confident and comfortable. If the party has a theme, guests should choose their clothes accordingly.

Tip3. Guests

Who should be invited to the party? This is the question that should be answered by the bride-to-be. If she wants some intimate girl bonding, then, only her closest friends should be there. The party planner should not fail to ask the bachelorette for a list of girls that she wants to be around. Make sure that you do not miss a friend that the bride wants present at the party. Someone might get upset for not getting invited.

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A Letter to All Brides-to-be

My dear bride:

What do you think marriage is? Someone says that marriage is the tomb of love. In recent years, more and more couples get divorced. It seems that divorce becomes a trend in this society. If this trend continues, it will bring more broken families and more social problems. For example, the juvenile delinquency happens more frequently in a divorced family or a single-parent home.

“……take you to be my wife/husband; to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, so long as we both shall live. ......” When couples decide to leave each other, do they still remember the vows they made on their wedding day?

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People get divorced for many reasons. I understand that everyone wants a happy marriage. So when the marriage meets frustrations, some couples fail to overcome them, but some people find ways to get through.

In fact, there are many difficulties and reverses in our whole life time. We should take them as the sea waves which keep lapping the sand beach. To me, marriage is never the tomb of love. Instead, it is a sublimation of love.

There is another metaphor of marriage: marriage is a cup of tea. It will taste plain when time passed. Instead, I shall say that, marriage is a bottle of wine. The wine of marriage will taste better when it was aged.

Online Dating—Yes or No (2)

A good date can grow into a romantic relationship. Love can blossom into marriage. Though this blog is about fairy bride, I think the topic of online date is kind of related our girls.

Is the online dating a love or risk? In my last post, I can not give a sure answer. However, yesterday I discussed this question with some of my friends. In the end, we have a vote: 3 to 2. Most of us think online dating is more dangerous than love. (Of course, you can tell me what you think if you have the disagreement.)

One of my friends thinks that online date is ruining the feeling of romance. He said many gays meet online didn’t take the relationship. And he added that, even if someone was serious about the relationship, no one was going to trust him.

I partly agree his point of view. People can hide or fake their information online. This is really unsafe. So girls should aware that online date can be quite risky sometimes.

 

First you can't judge the people exactly that whether they are saying truth to you or not. Moreover, if you start trusting a person and then he or she is fake it will ultimately hurts you emotionally. Mostly people date online for fun to pass their free time.

Things you should know before stepping into marriage (3)

Someone says that marriage is the tomb of love. There are many difficulties and reverses in our whole life time.

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We should take them as the sea waves which keep lapping the sand beach. To me, marriage is never the tomb of love. Instead, it is a sublimation of love.

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What is important to have a flourishing relationship? Besides what I have shared in my last two posts, today I will share some tips for you.

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Tip1. Learn to forgive

There is no perfect man in the world. Everyone makes mistakes. So does your husband or wife. The trust between you couples can hardly be built, if you don’t let it go.

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Tip2. Build confidence in marriage

Confidence is important, especially to married women. No matter how much you admire your partner, independence is necessary. You don’t need to rely on your partner all the time.

Things you should know before stepping into marriage (2)

Marriage needs to be taken care of. Going on with the topic of marriage bond, today I want to share more skills of how to get along with your partner.

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Tip1. Compromise

Making compromises to you partner is a smart move. When you and your partner have some disagreements on certain issues, quarrel cannot solve the problem. Smart people in marriage are good at making compromises. A good compromise is built on fair and justice.

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Tip2. Solving Problems

Be sensitive to problems between you and your partner is a good things. When you find out that you couples may have something wrong in your relationship, you should talk to each other. By making a conversation, you can know each other better. After the problem of your relationship is solved, you and your spouse can become more intimate.

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Things you should know before stepping into marriage (1)

Are you ready to step in the door of marriage? Marriage is holy and hopeful. But a ever lasting bond of marriage needs to take care of.

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In this post and the next following posts, I want to give some suggestions to all newlyweds. You may learn some tips which can improve the quality of your marriage, or solve some problems between you and your partner.

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Tip1 Communication

Talking to each other is very important. Communication is the bridge of you and your partner. Problems can be solved in time, if couples discus it in time. Therefore, fewer misunderstandings will exist in your bound of marriage.

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Tip2 Respect

When discussing something with your spouse, be respectful to your partner. You should consider your wife or husband’s feelings when you criticize her or his opinion.

Choosing bridal jewelry

When man and woman commit to be united in matrimony, the marriage ceremony comes first in the preparation. To most people, marriage is a major event, a lifetime commitment that should be celebrated differently from all other occasions. Most couples want their ceremony to be unique and memorable, a grand wedding day celebration! 

Before anything else, the bride should make her final choice as to the gown she should wear before she chooses her bridal jewelry. The color, pattern, and the design of the dress will have greater influence on the jewelry that the bride should wear. Likewise, the wedding theme and motif must also be considered in the choice of jewelry and accessories. 

Casual weddings call for simple yet elegant wedding jewelry, while formal weddings, insist on larger and more elaborate pieces that makes the bride the most beautiful woman on her wedding day. For the bridal jewelry, some choose to purchase or rent the same, but guests actually, do not mind where the jewelry and accessories are obtained, but they care more on how beautiful the bride should look on her wedding day.